It Takes Two to Make a Relationship Work
A month back, I attended my cousin’s wedding dinner in one of the grand hotel in Kuala Lumpur. It was a joyful event and everyone in the hotel ballroom included myself are happy for my cousin that she finally found the other half of her life.
What the most memorable for me during the ceremony is my uncle giving the speech on stage. I wasn’t exactly remember the whole statement that he said on the stage but the meaning behind what he said is touched my heart and I learned something from this 60 years old experienced man.
He emphasized that nobody is this world is perfect for anybody. There is no woman or man that is actually fit perfectly for us, forget about that if we are looking for someone that fit perfectly to us.
Many couples subconsciously are trying to change his or her partner to be someone that they want throughout the time when they are together. They are trying to to change his/her partner’s personality, attitude and behavior to their imaginary partner.
But the fact is all of us grown up in the different place, environment with different culture and lives in different parenting. There will be some differences between you and her or him and the only way to get things work out is we have to develop our ACCEPTANCE that there are differences between both of the partner.
Never ever try to change him or her to fit to your expectation of your imagination prince or princess. Your partner is the person that you have chosen to live with, and you shall accepts and loves who he or she is all the way in the life unconditionally and non of you shall give up loving your partner. It Takes Two to Make a Relationship Work.
If you agree with me, don’t forget to give a ‘Like’ at bottom of the post 🙂